The interview that one of Strict Julie’s cyber-subs conducted with her, and that Julie posted on her blog, generated quite a bit of comment related to the intensity that she often gets into when dealing with her husband david. Some of those comments follow our post, some follow the original post on Julie’s blog, some apparently were sent directly to Julie, and some follow a post summarizing Julie’s recent discussion with david on this issue.
I encourage you to read all related posts and the associated comments as many good points are made. Ms. Julie and david had communicated before starting, and she recently took the opportunity to discuss it again, in depth, with david. Need it be said that communication is a key … perhaps the greatest key … to any effective relationship related to our kinks? Trust and honesty are other keys. From what Julie and david (via Julie) have posted, it sounds like each is getting what they want from their domestic discipline relationship, and that they routinely reevaluate the ground rules. Sure, what Julie and david do is not for everyone, but it works for them. And, from what I have read, seems to be a relationship that others seek, or at least want to try.